The Other Woman/Man

Yes that is the latest thing I get to hear/see very often in these days relationships. Now here I am not talking abt married people, they are a total diferent breed after all together, so lets keep them aside. I am talking abt the singles who are already commited to a particular person ( for a good amt of time) and still ventures out of that relationship. The most surprising part is that just because that person is " technically not commited" entirely or married as we call it, their artners the other woman/man in their life is ok with it. They are ok with it just with the hopes that one day he/she will break up with their respective partners (commited to) and come running back to them and then they will ultimately become their official guy/ gal. I pity these set of people who fall into the other woman/man category because ultimately they are in for a major disappointment (lets say atleast 99%) .

Then ofcourse there are certain people who are actually in so much in luv with just the wrong person or let me just put it as the right person at the wrong time ( only if they wud have met a bit earlier) that they want to make the best out of whatever they can have knowing very well that the relationship is not going to workout after a certain period of time. I pity these group all the more cause after the relationship ends they are left with the memories they had together and its almost next to impposible to get over it completely.

So the question is why do people look for love out of the relatioship they are already into especiallt when u are not "technically commited ". What I mean is that they still do have the option to go ahead and start a new relationship ( ofcourse ending the last one ) if they are not able to get what they want from the realationship they are in. Dont they ?? I feel that many stick on to thei partners even though there is nothing common between them anymore just because of the amoutn of time they have already stuck aorund with each other. Some are real jerks who likes to play games at the neghbours backyard but atthe end of the will want to return home eventually. Also the factor tht India is not yet so open towards the concept of simply dating , where u are not seeing someone but simply trying out the best compatible person around.

I might sound like Sarah jessica Parker in Sex N City in my last 2 posts but I really cant help thinking this way abt love and relationships these days, because some where somw how I am liked to these stuff through the people i interact and sometimes I am directly affected. Song am listening to : Complicated - Avril Lavigne ( seems so appropriate with the things going on in my mind)